Monday, August 19, 2013

I like him :)

Alright, I promised an update about the guy that I saw on Saturday night (I mean, the whole thing made it to the peak of my week - there's some good stuff there!). Here it is:

I went to get drinks with Kristy and Chloe before going out. Our friend had bought a table at a club in Midtown, so we wanted to drink a little beforehand. The guy that I was going to meet up with was going out in Murray Hill that night, so we wanted to stop by and say hi for a few minutes and then head to the other club. (For all I knew, this guy could be a total WEIRDO! I hadn't seen him in over 2 months and I had no idea what his deal was.)

He texted me that they were at Joshua Tree (known to be the DOUCHIEST bar in
the neighborhoodall of Manhattan). I didn't know what to expect. We go into the bar and I saw him from a distance. I didn't really know what to do - should I just go up and say hi? Should I take 10 shots beforehand? I was having a slight mental breakdown.

Where the magic happened...Joshua Tree.
Where the magic happened...Joshua Tree.

Kristy and Chloe went to the bathroom to give me time to say an initial "hello" and kinda scope out the situation. I decided to just go for it.

I walked up to him and tapped his shoulder. He turned around and I gave a little "hey!". A grin spread across his face and he gave me a hug. We started talking and literally didn't stop the entire night (aside from when we were dancing, of course ;)). It worked out well because Kristy and Chloe hung out with his friends that were at the bar too - Kristy ended up staying out with them until 4am! I feel bad, we didn't go to our friend's table at the club, but this was definitely a better decision.

Anyway, he was just like I remembered him. But better. Literally so so so nice and incredibly fun - I can't believe that it took us this long to meet again! And today Chloe told me that all of his friends kept telling her how nice he was and how he was such a good guy (I would call bullshit on that, but he went to high school with one of my friends from college who said literally the EXACT SAME THING about him).

Obviously he ended up coming back to my apartment and staying the night (sparing some details here :)). I wasn't sure if that was all he was looking for though. I've said this before, but I really don't want something serious right now in my life. So even if he only wanted something for that night, I would be okay with that - I had A LOT of fun.

But yesterday afternoon (he left my place in the morning to go home to Jersey to go to church), he texted me asking how my day was. AND we talked all day today. We both told each other how we don't really like texting, so that's a pretty big deal for both of us.

Soooo yea. He is great. I am so happy with the situation right now - for now I don't want it to get too serious, especially us being so young and just entering the real world. But there is definitely something awesome there between us. I don't want to let this go, at least for the moment. :)

Could I use ANY MORE smileys in this post? :)

<3, Charlotte

16 comments:

  1. Awh congrats Charlotte! Good for you for not wanting a serious relationship right off the bat, I think having high expectations is the downfall of most women. Just let it happen and see where it goes!

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  2. Gah I love new boys. Yay! Congrats!

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  3. My thoughts exactly! Yea you definitely won't see me turning into one of those psycho girls, I've seen that situation too many times and it's the worst!!

    <3, Charlotte

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  4. WeEeEeEeEeEe thank youuu!! :)

    <3, Charlotte

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  5. Hahaha you're totally gushing!! I see the red in your face as I type this! Good for you Char. Very happy to read this!

    K. or J. not sure how to sign it.

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  6. I think you need some more "smiley's" in this post! LOL What a great night you had! I love hearing about stories like this and I can't wait for MORE updates! I agree with you, that I love that feeling when you meet someone new, when you're like "pinch me" cause I'm dreamin kinda feeling. :-)

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  7. Omg I'm so excited for you!! You are totally gushing so it's obvious you like him but you also have your head screwed on and aren't going to turn into crazy relationship girl - sounds like the perfect situation :) x

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  8. Haha :) blushing as I read your comment

    <3, Char

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  9. Hahahaha right?! Yea we will see if it lasts/what ends up happening :) :) (more smileys, haha!)

    <3, Charlotte

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  10. EEEEEEE thank you! Yea I def won't become crazy relationship girl. That has never been a role of mine, haha. We will see what happens!!

    <3, Charlotte

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  11. I love reading about new boys. Its always so exciting! Good luck and have lots of fun! :D

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  12. Thank youuuu! So far, so fun :) haha hopefully it will continue!

    <3, Charlotte

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  13. Yay! That's exactly the story I was hoping for you. It seem like you are taking this the right way. Happy for you :)
    -Jothy <3

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  14. I love hearing new boy news :) This is such a cute story!

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  15. :) Thank you!! Yes it was everything I hoped for too!!

    <3, Charlotte

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  16. Ahh thanks! I will def keep you posted on how it goes!

    <3, Charlotte

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